oh wait my dad died 3 1/2 years ago….

can these fathers day adds just fucking stop like seriously not everyone has a dad anymore and some people never did.

I’m finding a little bit of purpose to be here, on Tumblr and to be alive.

Helping people.

I have people coming to my ask ( I just don’t publish them to keep their secrets safe) and asking for my help and venting to me.

and it turns out I’m actually damn good at helping (so I’m told)

It makes me feel so good to help someone choose life or choose to eat, or convince someone to put their razor down, and even deal with the loss of someone close to them.

Probably because I’ve been through all these things and I still deal with them now.

It gives me a sense of purpose and a feeling of actually doing something. and to see that I can help peoples lives is the best thing in the world.

So if you have any problem any problem at all, I’m here for you. Just fill my ask with whatever you need, if you aren’t on anon I wont publish it unless you tell me I can. I’ll answer anyone anon or not and help you a quickly and to the best of my ability 

Trust me, I’m here to help you all you have to do is ask.

This right here is the strongest, most amazing man in the whole world.

That’s right it’s my Daddy.

He taught me everything from how to change a tire to how to put together a cute outfit.  

If it wasn’t for him I would have turned out the girl who didn’t know how to do anything at all.

Of course I had my mother too but she was never there. She was present butn ever there.

He protected me from everything including my mother, He kept me safe and reminded me multiple times a day that I was truly loved

He passed away two years ago, not a day that goes by that I don’t think of him or need something he’s taught me. I sit there and will randomly think of a story I forgot he even told me, right when I needed the knowledge it shared. 

He left the world when I was 17 but he’ll be helping me forever. That’s how you know you had a great father.

R.I.P Daddy (Butch) 10-05-09